We’ve been in Switzerland for three weeks now. In some ways
this feels like an incredibly long amount of time, and in some ways it feels
like we just got here. The first week or so was kind of like a weird vacation, but
no nice hotel and going to work all day instead of exploring. But now we’ve
been here 3 weeks, which is long enough to get used to some things, and for
other things to really stand out as different/tough.
There are several aspects of our everyday life that we’ve
gotten reasonably comfortable with: we can hop on the bus and get pretty much
anywhere we want to go, we can go to the grocery store or pharmacy and leave
with what we set out to get, and we’ve learned some basic French vocabulary so
that we can successfully order in a restaurant (most of the time). I recognize
how ridiculous that all sounds, but it really did take a few failed attempts at
each of these things to get it right.
And we’ve also had a lot of very necessary tasks that were
near impossible to complete (and that we’re still working on):
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Getting a bank account here as an American is pretty challenging (apparently this is the IRS’s fault). We were finally able to open ours last week, once we had the document proving that we live here full time (our “Attestation”).
- Getting said “Attestation” was not easy either – the canton of Geneva wants to know your permanent address in order to give you this document, and our current address is temporary.
- Finding someone to rent you an apartment without an “Attestation” is also hard…so you’ve got this chicken-and-egg situation
here. The good news – we found an apartment! It’s
about 20 minutes outside of the city center and it’s just perfect. It’s also a
sublet, which made the paperwork significantly easier. We move in August 28,
and we can’t wait.
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You also can’t get a cell phone contract until
you are able to present your permanent residence permit (we don’t receive ours
for another week or so). I was able to get a phone through work, but Andy is
using a go-phone for now.
My parents came to visit us, and we had such a great time
showing them a bit of our city. We enjoyed some touristy activities with them,
but even more so just appreciated having some familiarity in our lives, even if
just for a few days. Here are a few pictures from the weekend (Sue took so many
more than I did):
Picture with Jet D'eau #23
Some of the best Italian food I've ever had - with an amazing view!
So anyway, culture shock.
In addition to the difficulties in getting settled in here, the following is just a list of our cultural observations that we thought were interesting/funny.
Clothes.
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Men wear a loooot of capri pants. And super tight full-length pants.
- Grown men (like 40 and up) pop their collars.
- We see at least 3 people every day wearing some sort of American flag or American phrase on their clothes – and they definitely
aren’t American.
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About 50% of the time that we go somewhere, whoever we try to talk to is able to speak English – it’s so impressive to us. If you think about the reverse, a French person who speaks little-to-no English would have an incredibly difficult time in the US.
- We hear a lot of broken English that can be pretty funny. For example, Trevor’s vet told us that “his liver isn’t very beautiful.” Our new landlord also referred to the dishwasher as a "robot". We were super confused for about 5 seconds.
- Before we learned how to say “I don’t speak French” properly, Andy told a couple different people “You don’t speak French.” That went well.
- We can both carry a simple conversation in Spanish, which has been incredibly helpful – we find that a lot of people here speak Spanish as a second language if they don’t speak English.
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SO. MUCH. PIZZA. If we want to eat something cheap for dinner without cooking ourselves, our options are pizza or sandwiches.
- Wine is cheaper than water.
- We eat dessert every day. Gelato, pain du chocolat, tarts, pastries, custards…if we weren’t walking so much every day, we’d be well
on our way to type 2 diabetes.
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Cigarette smoke is literally everywhere. Even though people can’t smoke indoors or on public transportation, we walk outside a lot too – and I would say about 50% of the general population smokes.
- Apartments do not have air conditioning ever, and rarely have a dishwasher or washing machine.
- Personal space is an American concept. I'm pretty sure that the lack of personal space here isn’t just a Swiss thing, because this city is so international- everyone is from all over the world- and the Americans are the only ones who will step back and give you some space on the sidewalk or on the bus. I decided that this is one of my favorite things
about American culture.